Wishing you a Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays, Seasons Greeting, Happy Hannukah,
& Happy Kwanzaa too.
So Giving thanks for
a wonderfully happy, mostly healthy family (hubbie and children)
smiles and spontaneous laughter
friends new and old
and a wonderful supportive extended family
a house with a roof and a dog to run around the yard
and the people that read this blog that's you
and the time to blog because I love it.
"Do not EVER speak negatively about your spouse or complain about them to others. Ever, ever, ever. Just don't bring that kind of negativity into your marriage.
Exercise & stay fit! Makes for a positive outlook, healthy body, and great sexy time. :)"
Be happy everyoneCherish your loved ones.Work on your communicationand be always intimate and affectionate with each other.
I love you just because you are youA while ago I took a parenting course, because frankly been struggling with giving time and encouragement to each of my four children. My second child basically being the middle child unfortunately was/is the child that gets left to her devices most time. She is also the one that will be snapped at the most, because she is as precocious, inquisitive, chatta much about not much and fidgety as any eight year can be.
Treasure mapping, or vision boarding, has long been used in order to create a visual representation of your hopes, wishes and dreams.Half way through the mental planning of my vision board it hit me, wouldn't it be a great t an hing if you did up a vision board together with your significant other. I don't think I have ever heard of anyone doing a joint board.
The promise inherent in this effort is that before a year is done, some or even all of your intentions on that map will have come true in some shape or form.What would be on your couples vision board ( I can tell it is never too late to put one together)
To grey or not to grey now that question of the day.I know that many of us never think of this when we hook up with our significant other.
This weekend I dare you to hold hands with your significant others even if it just while you watch tv.
Sometimes pressure puts things out of proportion but honestly you may be surprised that you like the shape that it takes when the pressure is off.
3) Always remember to call and say that you are running late...2) Remember to spend time with each other if only for 10 minutes every day1) Kiss Kiss and Kiss some more your sweetie
According to WebMD (the inspiration for Gwen's blog) Dartmouth College economist David Blachflower and Andrew Oswald of the University of Warwick in England report that sex "enters so strongly (and) positively in happiness equations" that they estimate increasing intercourse from once a month to once a week is equivalent to the amount of happiness generated by getting an additional $50,000 in income for the average American.Overall, the happiest folks are those getting the most sex -- married people, who report 30% more between-the-sheets action than single folks. In fact, the economists calculate that a lasting marriage equates to happiness generated by getting an extra $100,000 each year.
Have secret words so you can imply what you want in front of the kids (e.g. ice cream=sex).
Have a quickie.
Don't wear underwear under your clothing. This may work better-or at least feel more comfortable-with a dress or a skirt.
Have sex with all of the lights on.
Keep eye contact throughout the entire sexual experience- especially during orgasm when you naturally want to close your eyes. This could be one of the most intimate moments you've shared.>> This one though I think I would laugh too much and spoil the mood though laughter is never a bad thing
"I still write Julie love letters," Kyle says. "The one I wrote for her birthday last year listed all the reasons I love her." But for Julie, his most romantic move is the mornings he wakes up with their two boys, Luke and Caleb, and lets her sleep in. "Being a father is Kyle's favorite role and greatest joy in life," she says.Isn't that sweet. I wish I could sleep in too... Oh now I remember, I do, most Saturdays I get an extra hour while hubby tries to keep the children quiet as they tear up the house.
What's that old adage...
When the cat's away the mice shall play!
My favourite part of the whole ceremony was when he looked at her with a sweet smile and told her she looked beautiful... swoon!
But then I started to wonder...
Do you remember that AHA moment when you KNEW he was the one, that this was it. This was the man you were going to marry!I am so happy to have my friend Nicole of "When Did I become my Mom!" answer this question:
Do you remember that AHA moment when you KNEW he was the one, that this was it. This was the man you were going to marry!
This is something we should all read at least once a week!!!!!
Make sure you read to the end!!!!!! Written by Regina Brett, 90 years old, of the Plain Dealer, Cleveland , Ohio : To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me.
It is the most requested column I've ever written. My odometer rolled over to 90 in August, so here is the column once more:
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick.
Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea
what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye.
But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood.
But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't
take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie.
Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words
'In five years, will this matter?'
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of
anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw
everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come...
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift." I really like #25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
What about you!
Have a great week all
You are JUST my husband I am the Queen and you WILL do as I say !