I realize that at times it may be hard to really notice your significant other.
Work gets in the way
The children and all the responsibilities get in the way
making of dinner
paying the bills
stupid argument over toothpaste
you fill in your distraction
it gets in the way
It is all too easy for the day to pass and you haven't really spoken to your spouse other than to grumble good morning or hello.
But it is important that you schedule a minimum of 10 minutes a day to connect.
To talk about your day, to see each other.... to share a touch, a kiss even
It could be just before you go to bed or first thing as you wake but without that time for connection then you can easily fall into simply being roommates.
When is our ten minutes... the ten minutes before I go to bed ( hubbie usually stays up later bonding with the computer.)
When would our special talking time be?