tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37495777908939472762024-02-18T19:08:39.200-08:00Great Expectations- the Manual or I shouldnt have to sayWahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.comBlogger145125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-27324319099706292122021-01-08T12:32:00.001-08:002021-01-08T12:32:29.522-08:00Shhh I'm trying to sleep here!<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDnBQ2vF-23x1vNy-3ar_PsAbE7I2_INd37D37d24FeKcpS2q9QGFeo4zJ_HwPj84o1yE7CnrUkS_MdNebdlQv3_zC0Vqc6Ho6OC2kw5UE5QVcTNm4h4ohtK47gFpNZPVScsdevTCEOa4/s1280/new-years-eve-3894630_1280.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="815" data-original-width="1280" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDnBQ2vF-23x1vNy-3ar_PsAbE7I2_INd37D37d24FeKcpS2q9QGFeo4zJ_HwPj84o1yE7CnrUkS_MdNebdlQv3_zC0Vqc6Ho6OC2kw5UE5QVcTNm4h4ohtK47gFpNZPVScsdevTCEOa4/s320/new-years-eve-3894630_1280.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><i>Well look at that it is a New Year and I am actually here to say hello!!</i><p><i>Wishing one and all the very best that you can fathom and... a whole lot more. <br /></i></p><p><i>Really just hoping that we can get back to some semblance of normal this year keeping a few of the things that we learnt from 2020 though. I am a fan of the social distancing when standing in a line and well the whole hand washing thing I always did but absolutely love that everyone now has to. I would definitely keep the washing or spraying of all things and people that entire the house. teehee</i></p><p>Being married or being part of a couple certainly makes you you privvy to some weird things. You find yourself witnessing things that honestly you may not ever want to (Using the bathroom at the same time anyone) and you also may end up learning about things that you do that you would never know without your partner telling you (Yes you snore!). </p><p>Very early in our marriage my husband found out my propensity to talk in my sleep. Apparently I don't only just talk in my sleep I have also been known to jump out of the bed and go rushing about in a haste. Now I remember nothing but my husband is usually quite peeved at me when it happens... as if I am doing it on purpose LOL.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Scientific Significance of Sleep Talking · Frontiers for Young Minds" class="rg_i Q4LuWd" data-atf="true" data-deferred="1" data-iml="1245" height="159" 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width="319" /> <br /></p><p>I found this article on Bored Panda that was hilarious possibly because I may have done one or two of these myself ahahahah</p><p><a href="https://www.boredpanda.com/sleep-talking-stories-hilarious-twitter/?cid=1">https://www.boredpanda.com/sleep-talking-stories-hilarious-twitter/?cid=1</a></p><p>What weird little quirk came up once your partnership became comfortable?</p><p>Are there any other sleep talkers out there? I can't be the only one LOL</p><p><i>Cheers to a great weekend.</i></p><p><i>Be safe and please wear a mask if you leave your house!</i><br /></p>Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-39607753004682543712020-11-12T04:42:00.001-08:002020-11-12T04:42:19.096-08:0020 questions<p> Well look at this I haven't been here in 2 years!! GASP! </p><p>2 whole years.</p><p><img alt="HI - Hi guys | Facebook" class="n3VNCb" data-noaft="1" height="283" 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My mother died last year, February 4th 2019 to be exact, and I would say the last thing I was thinking was to write anything not even her eulogy which I had no choice but to do. I literally shut down mentally. I don't think anyone knew because I still smiled and fed children and got them to school and back, but I drowned myself in all things Netflix specifically Asian romance/comedy/dramas I am partial to Korean and Chinese.Yeah don't ask because I wouldn't be able to explain it either.</p><p>And of course this year has presented it own special set of challenges thanks to Miss Corona infecting anyone within coughing or laughing distance. I was always a homebody well now it's even more ingrained in me. The thought of wearing a mask and bustling around with people who may possibly be contagious and dont know it scares me so I rather stay home and wash everything that comes in with soap. Sigh.</p><p><span style="background-color: #fff2cc;"><i>Anyways, I am slowly getting back a desire to share my thoughts on things</i></span></p><p><span style="background-color: #fff2cc;"><i><span style="background-color: white;"><span></span></span></i></span>So I have been reading a lot of romcoms yes I went from binge watching to binge reading. Send help LOL! And in a few of them I noticed as a form of getting to know each other/ icebreaker a lot of them do like a 20 questions date. And it made me think this morning that this is a format that could work for married couples as well even ones married for 21 years or more. Yes, the hubbie and I celebrated 21 years this year! </p><p>Simple questions like:-</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">What is your favourite colour? Has it changed?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">What is your favourite foods now?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">What should we put in a will?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Do you think we would take up travelling when the children have move out?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Do you still like travelling?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">What is that one place you want to visit that you haven't? <br /></p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Seascape or mountainscape?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Do you want to go larger or smaller? Homes that is.</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Red wine or white wine? <br /></p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">What song should we play at your funeral? </p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Do you want a funeral?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Are you okay being placed in a home if you got dementia?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Are still thinking of divorce because of vicks?</p><p style="margin-left: 80px; text-align: left;">Dogs or cats?<br /></p><p>The reason for the 20 questions?</p><p>Because over time people change. </p><p>My favourite colour as a teenager and young adult was purple no ifs, no buts but now it leans more to orange and gold and pink. Just saying.</p><p>Asking the silly questions can lead to the really hard questions about life that you as a couple may be avoiding. Having dealt with three parents dying in the last 7 years with both my parents in the last 3 it has become apparent that the hard questions will happen whether you want them or not. So it helps to be prepared. </p><p>Especially when gifting your wife of 21 years a beautiful bottle of red wine for her 50th birthday when she is not a big wine drinker and if she is drinking it has to be white LOL.</p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTWBV5J2O9Bmmz0eVwkb4MqEiHhLeeBJiMXrMWs83B6fDG_vqCiDbmnVK-RHgXu6x_gYsMw7KBdRmEo9bFrvFTNlosE2CsJqDZrsOYrEj6LA5jqAqKsLqUVhC36O20yi7X1dOoU7Ahd70/s640/wine-glass-4055939_640.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="426" data-original-width="640" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjTWBV5J2O9Bmmz0eVwkb4MqEiHhLeeBJiMXrMWs83B6fDG_vqCiDbmnVK-RHgXu6x_gYsMw7KBdRmEo9bFrvFTNlosE2CsJqDZrsOYrEj6LA5jqAqKsLqUVhC36O20yi7X1dOoU7Ahd70/s320/wine-glass-4055939_640.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>Yes 50 happened this year as well. </p><p>Have a good one friends</p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p><p><br /></p>Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-67854950801399437352018-04-23T20:10:00.001-07:002018-04-23T20:12:54.156-07:00<div class="tenor-gif-embed" data-aspect-ratio="2.3714285714285714" data-postid="4889828" data-share-method="host" data-width="100%">
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It has been a hot minute!
This year seems to be on skates going way to fast.
Not making any promises, just dropping in to say HELLO!
Hope all is well.Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-52380384798946269792017-12-14T20:21:00.000-08:002017-12-14T20:21:06.344-08:00SharingOooo I found this post to be very good<br />
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If Men Actually Did These 15 Things, Women Would Want Sex All The Time</h3>
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Favourite line:- "Unsexy things can be a total turn on. Take out the trash. Wash the
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Boy is this ever true. I am not the least bit interested in the cooking, cleaning and washing that is required to keep a house running. And boy have I been grumpy because neither is the hubby. And having just released our housekeeper it means I have to do it all again. So I am actually living the reverse of that line right now where I am thinking no help with house then no sex for you! ... I joke well okay maybe a little serious LOL.<br />
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Anyway as I said it is a really good article.<br />
click on the link and give some of it a try it.<br />
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It baffles the mind how fast this year is speeding by. It is October already I haven't once peeped in here and said hello!! How is that possible?<br />I guess life happens, people grow up, people grow old and some of them die and make you cry. But also babies are born and families get together and you feel loved.<br />
Life.<br />
I read this article today that I thought was interesting and I thought to share with you all. It speaks about men's role in the success of a relationship and how men who allow their wives to influence them have happier marriages and are less likely to divorce. I think the more men who reads this the better for us all. So go ahead and Click <a href="https://www.thriveglobal.com/stories/14365-emotionally-intelligent-husbands-are-key-to-a-lasting-marriage?lipi=urn%3Ali%3Apage%3Ad_flagship3_feed%3B%2FNGBNDFERESD32lRWxJsmg%3D%3D" target="_blank">here.</a><br />
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I have only ever experienced the impact of a hurricane on a country as an adult. First hurricane ever witnessed by me was Hurricane Ivan. I was married with children. When the hurricane watch was upgraded to warning I was naturally panicked and wanted to bring everything outside into our tiny apt. I was convinced that the Category 4 winds would pick up everything in the patio and twirl it around like a mad dervish and smash our sliding glass door to smithereens. The hubbie laughed at me so hard telling me that I clearly watch too many movies and this was a Hurricane and not Twister. I felt bad because of my inexperience.<br />
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Fast Forward to this year September and Hurricane Matthew was heading our way and much to my surprise this time we were in a bigger place without a glass sliding door and my hubbie was hastily battening down the hatches and bringing in everything that wasn't bolted down into the house because (in all seriousness!!) you never know what the wind would do cause it was a Category 4 Hurricane you know!<br />
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I just had to chuckle what a difference a few years makes. LOL<br />
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I enjoyed this article <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/seth-adam-smith/real-love-is-a-choice_b_6039412.html">http://www.huffingtonpost.com/seth-adam-smith/real-love-is-a-choice_b_6039412.html</a><br />
It speaks to what I have been saying throughout this blog. As a married couple you make the decision to be married and to stay married. Love is a choice. Marriage is a choice. You choose to stay in both.<br />
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Have a great weekend and make great choices.Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-14750467164805878362016-09-26T13:43:00.001-07:002016-09-26T13:43:05.409-07:00Just saying HELLO!!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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I am not even going to excuse why I have been away so long. I did not know it has been so long!!!<br />
Suffice it to say it has been busy and stressful and sometimes not fun over here. You know that line in your marriage vows where you say through thick and thin. Well this is our thin times.<br />
Well who isn't going through thin, lean eat salt times right now I guess. If you aren't please feel free to adopt the hubbie and I. LOL.<br />
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I saw this on Instagram recently and thought it really cute and stole it to share here.<br />
I especially love #2 because I love birthdays and #7 because wouldn't it just be great not having to think about who needs to eat or drink every two minutes?<br />
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Hope everyone is great! Please say Hello back. <br />
<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-26209183308287376212015-02-12T09:03:00.002-08:002015-02-12T09:03:33.846-08:00Heart beatsI saw this on Allyssa Milano's Facebook and had to borrow it. I absolutely love this<br />
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I thought it fitting as so many of us are feeling all fuzzy and heart a flutter as Valentine's day draws near.<br />
Keep good<br />
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Suffice it to say it was a busy year. It was also what could be one of the worst years to date full loss... loss of property, loss of family, loss of father-in-law and loss of health. Sigh</div>
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So I have two. What is yours?<br />
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Thought this was a good way to start the year here. Have a read.<br />
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Yahoo Shine's <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/healthy-living/5-secrets-happy-marriage-181932455.html" target="_blank">5 Surprising Secrets To a Happy Marriage</a> is really an interesting read.<br />
The tips for a Happy marriage is interesting with a delicious twist.<br />
I especially love this:<br />
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<i><span style="background-color: #999999;"><span style="font-size: large;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span></span><span style="color: #999999;">"</span></span></span></span>If you're going to drink a cocktail, pour for two. Although it's unclear why, both married and dating <a data-rapid_p="8" href="http://www.buffalo.edu/news/releases/2010/12/12072.html" target="_blank">couples who enjoy between one and three drinks together feel happier </a>than
those who indulge when they're apart. "Individuals who drink with their
partner report feeling increased intimacy and decreased relationship
problems the next day, compared to individuals who drink apart from
their partner or do not drink at all," lead author Ash Levitt, PhD, a
postdoctoral fellow at University of Buffalo's Research Institute on
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Do you drink together? We do sometimes. After reading this article I realised that the hubbie who has always been a rum and pepsi drinker actually drinks cranberry and rum whenever I do drink alcohol. Strange the little ways you adapt to each other.<br />
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Read the rest of the article<a href="http://If you're going to drink a cocktail, pour for two. Although it's unclear why, both married and dating couples who enjoy between one and three drinks together feel happier than those who indulge when they're apart. "Individuals who drink with their partner report feeling increased intimacy and decreased relationship problems the next day, compared to individuals who drink apart from their partner or do not drink at all," lead author Ash Levitt, PhD, a postdoctoral fellow at University of Buffalo's Research Institute on Addictions, said in a press release. The effects were seen in couples who mirror each other's drinking habits, so if your partner is abstaining, you should too. " target="_blank"> here</a>.<br />
And here is another good read : <a href="http://jamesmsama.com/2014/02/01/8-acts-of-chivalry-to-bring-back/" target="_blank">8 Acts Of Chivalry To Bring Back</a><br />
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Maybe you have a drink or two together but most of all have a great weekend together. <span style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: Georgia,"Times New Roman",serif;"><i> </i></span></span><br />
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<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-26683036974409517942014-02-14T06:57:00.002-08:002014-02-14T06:57:45.372-08:00Happy Valentines dayI am not a big music person as in I very rarely know who sings the song I am humming along.<br />
But i have been really, belatedly, loving John Legend.<br />
I am especially in love with the song he wrote for his now wife Chrissy Teigen- All of Me.<br />
Makes me think of the hubbie. and makes me smile.<br />
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Is there a song that does that for you?<br />
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Hope you have a great day sharing hugs and kisses with family, friends and if there is one your significant other.<br />
<span style="color: #e06666;"><i>XOXOXOX </i></span><br />
<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-70307135637031223832014-02-12T20:25:00.000-08:002014-02-12T20:25:28.400-08:00Making it a habit.It is really interesting cruising around the webosphere ( yes I know, not a word) when it comes to marriage and staying that way the advice is not original.<br />
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<span style="color: #990000;">Touch each other every day. Hold hands, sit close together for a few minutes.</span></h2>
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And that is not a bad thing. To me it means that it is all tried and tested so should be easy enough to follow. Or at least be worth it to try some of the advice.<br />
Click<a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/kristen-welch/habits-of-a-hot-marriage-_b_4025285.html?utm_hp_ref=mostpopular" target="_blank"> here</a> for Habits of a Hot Marriage-great read.<br />
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If you have been passed through here a few time you would know that February is my favourite month. I go into great detail in this past post<a href="http://ishouldnthavetosay.blogspot.com/2011/02/im-in-mood-for-love.html" target="_blank"> http://ishouldnthavetosay.blogspot.com/2011/02/im-in-mood-for-love.html</a><br />
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Valentine's day is 2 days away wishing you all the day and the surprises that you wish for when it does come. I love this post about Valentine's day expectations from the new to me blog An Inch of Gray. Click <a href="http://aninchofgray.blogspot.com/2014/02/v-day.html" target="_blank">here </a>to enjoy as well. It made me giggle. <br />
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The hubbie and I will be celebrating 15 years of marriage. What an interesting ride it has been so far.<br />
Here is to many many more.<br />
<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-81691296681320393782014-02-03T19:39:00.002-08:002014-02-03T19:39:50.217-08:00Communication is keyFirst post for the year!!! Screech how did that happen? Sigh oh well i will just skip the preamble and apologies and just drop a few lines on you.<br />
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Saw this weird little video entitled "If you want a successful long-term relationship of any kind. Here Are 3 Invaluable Things To Know" and it very simply outlines exactly what I like to say here when I do come a-visiting.<br />
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Hope to be seeing more of you this year of 2014 and the year of the horse. Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-54618423279178009082013-10-28T21:58:00.002-07:002013-10-28T21:59:56.567-07:00<blockquote class="tr_bq">
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Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-15242097226297099432013-10-02T10:04:00.001-07:002013-10-02T10:04:18.606-07:00Hellooo HelloooI can not believe it! I just cant believe it it has been 4 month since I last visited here!!!!!<br />
Yes I know it is a faux pas to add so many exclamation marks but I feel as if I could add more. But as we all know time gets in the way and summer was excitedly busy so so it goes. Hope all has been good with you all.<br />
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I came across this article on Shine ( yes I still am liking their relationship aricles) and I felt I had to share the link here with you.<br />
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Really, this is the most important person you learn about marriage
from. There are the little things your spouse teaches you, like "Put the
toilet seat down" or "Don't bother me while I'm watching <em>Doctor Who</em>,"
but there are also the larger lessons. It took me a long time to learn
how to fight. I tried fighting like my parents did, but that didn't work
because Karel doesn't respond well to yelling. I tried burying it deep
down so I wouldn't yell, but that didn't solve anything because I went
mute. So now I've developed a very monotone delivery when I'm mad. It's
not like Karel enjoys my fighting voice (I basically sound like a
robot), but she doesn't tune it out. We don't scare the kids, we don't
scare each other-hey, it works for us. I could only have learned to
fight like a robot from being married to Karel, and I'm sure she's
learned equally valuable lessons from me. I'll ask her what they are
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What he says here is genius to me right now. Figuring how to fight properly is an important key in maintaining a good relationship, because lets face it there are going to be fights and depending how you handle those fights makes a world of difference in your relationship.<br />
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Keep trying to get it right also speaks to my favourite mantra when it comes to relationships and marriage in particular, which as you may recall is Choose to stay married.<br />
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:D<br />
Well that is all for now click <a href="http://shine.yahoo.com/love-sex/5-unusual-ways-men-learn-good-husbands-135900687.html" target="_blank">here</a> to read the whole article.<br />
Hope you are having a great week.<br />
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Oh and <i>Congratulations to my friend Racquel, wishing her and new hubbie many happy years together filled with love, success and prosperity. </i></h4>
<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-37534002011721306162013-05-25T20:37:00.000-07:002013-05-25T20:37:24.875-07:00Just like Tom & Jerry<br />
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The other day I overheard a guy describing his 2 year marriage and was quite tickled by it.<br />
He likened marriage to that of a Tom and Jerry episode where you spend all your time trying to kill, trap, or maim the other and just as you about to be victorious in the kill, it hits you that there is no way life would mean anything if they were gone.<br />
Well my first reaction was of course - No way is marriage like a Tom and Jerry pfft what did he know the little upstart.<br />
And then congratulating a friend on 10 years of marriage, she pretty much had the same sentiment.<br />
Her response to the my words of congratulations:- <i><span style="color: #cc0000;">"Can you believe 10 years and I haven't killed him yet and boy have I thought of it a few times too many LOL. But he is a good man and I do still love him so."</span></i><br />
And I suppose if I really think about it I would have to admit that marriage is made up of a whole lot of sparring mixed with a good dose of make-up time.<br />
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What do you think?<br />
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Enjoy the rest of your weekend. <br />
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<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-21276362063270246472013-04-10T10:23:00.002-07:002013-04-10T10:23:15.909-07:00Unsolicited AdviceWell so much for my New Years goal of visiting and continuing the conversation here. Still going to try for more often if not every week as I planned.<br />
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<br />Recently I gave a newlywed friend some unsolicited advice.<br />
Yes I know it is supposed to be rude dishing out unsolicited advice but you must know I love to do it, goodness this entire blog is about unsolicited advice!<br />
It was two nuggets actually.<br />
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The first was communication of course I am like a broken record with that one.<br />
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<b>Talk and listen</b>. <br />
Talk to each other about things every day. In the link I have linked to from O magazine (I am a big big fan) it suggests <b>talking 10 minutes a day about something that is not related to work, children or dogs </b>just like you would have if you were still dating. It is actually a great tip to remember because those little conversations remind you and your significant other that you are person and not only mother or wife.<br />
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And the other ( I literally ran behind her to tell her this one :))<br />
<b>Touch</b><br />
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Click on thise and see what I mean<br />
<a href="http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Habits-Of-Happy-Couples-Happy-Couples-Secrets/3">http://www.oprah.com/relationships/Habits-Of-Happy-Couples-Happy-Couples-Secrets/3</a><br />
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Also a friend posted this link on Facebook and I had to share it here as well! It is a man's view of how to make it work. Marriage that is. It really is all in the mindset.<br />
<a href="http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationships/3-things-i-wish-i-knew-we-got-married">http://www.relevantmagazine.com/life/relationships/3-things-i-wish-i-knew-we-got-married</a><br />
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Hope you are having a great week!<br />
<i>And are you touching enough? </i>Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-23249371539134287832013-03-15T20:54:00.000-07:002013-03-15T20:54:00.604-07:00A Positive lightThe shower head broke in our bathroom and water spewed all over the room.<br />
so to have a shower the husband removed the shower head and the water flowed straight from the pipe.<br />
I thought it very inconvenient. BUT<br />
My daughter jumped into the shower and exclaimed with delight … "I am bathing in a fountain YAY!!”<br />
and you know when it was my turn I couldn’t help but giggle because I honestly didn’t see a busted shower anymore but a fountain. LOL<br />
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It is strange how things happen.<br />
Take this pumpkin for example.<br />
The vine where it originated was two houses away, which would make it my neighbour's neighbour house. The vine appeared to literally float thru the air never making contact or attaching to anything in my immediate neighbour's yard to take up residence in my back yard. A really amazing occurrence don't think. It sat in my yard as if it was always intended for that spot. <br />
Doesn't it make you think of what happens when you meet that significant someone.<br />
For whatever reason it is never who you think it would be who really catches your fancy.<br />
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It's February the month of Love *giggle* and for the first time since I started this blog I haven't felt the zeal to actually publish a post. Oh I have ideas but my problem is squeezing in time to get it done. Sigh! This February 14th meant 14years that the hubster and I have been married. Pretty cool if you ask me.<br />
And just like the pumpkin it seemed like a wind, albeit a strong breeze, was the cause of getting us together and growing a relationship which blossomed into a marriage.<br />
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I didn't have my friends take part in my AHA series this year but I decided that this affords us the opportunity to revisit the wonderful women who indulged my quest to share in that magical moment when they just knew that they had met 'the One'.<br />
<a href="http://ishouldnthavetosay.blogspot.com/2012_02_01_archive.html" target="_blank">http://ishouldnthavetosay.blogspot.com/2012_02_01_archive.html </a><br />
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Also love this post from Thought Catalog- <a href="http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/15-signs-youre-in-love/" target="_blank">15 Signs You're in Love</a> thought I would share it just in case you were wondering.<br />
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Have a great weekend all!Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-21081936286407386332013-01-30T10:58:00.001-08:002013-01-30T10:58:22.671-08:00Say it loudI happened upon a friend's words of joy about the birth of his new son and the love for his wife and I was reminded again recently how important words are in a relationship... especially good positive words.<br />
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'My son may look like me but it is my wife who made him perfect.' </h4>
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It was just a simple line but from it I am sure everyone saw how in love he was with his wife.<br />
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I follow a fellow Trini on tumblr for that same reason he always always speaks of his wife with reverence and unabashed love and dear I say desire.<br />
I like hearing men and women gush about their significant others especially those couples that have been together for years.<br />
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I wrote a post awhile back (can you believe almost three years ago!!!) about never talking bad about your significant other to other persons and I want to go one further and these two guys reminded me about it big time.<br />
<i><a href="http://ishouldnthavetosay.blogspot.com/2010/05/list-of-good-words-only.html" target="_blank">Click to peruse the use of good words</a>.</i><br />
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January is almost over can you believe. January is always a busy time for me because it comes right after Christmas (no duh), school starts back and then my two eldest have birthdays. Over the last week I have been celebrating their births... time is flying so fast. They are both now respectively 12 and 10 ((sob)) and in the spirit of speaking good words I have to say I have been blessed with a great father for all these children. It is a joy to see them all interact. I did make a good choice.<br />
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So signing off by saying remember to keep your words positive. Saying them over and over makes them a continuing reality.<br />
And lastly Happy Birthday to my sweeties.Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-7192721260523011612013-01-02T21:14:00.003-08:002013-01-02T21:14:55.206-08:00Reflecting on the past yearWow has it really been 3 months since my last post? Geez! Here is a little of what I was up to...<br />
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2012 is over and strangely enough I am happy to see it done. </h3>
The year had a very tragic film over it... <br />
It seemed someone that I knew or used to know died every minute of 2012.<br />
And that doesn't include all the famous people of my age that are no more.<br />
There were huge family outbursts and possibly irreparable damage done there. <br />
The reality of our family dynamic is scary to think of... hmmm.<br />
There
were too many trips to the hospital and the inevitable ugly side of the
aging process reared it's head too many times this year. To put it
bluntly I have been sitting anxious all year wondering if that out of
the ordinary phone call is bringing bad news of sickness or death.<br />
Money just seemed tight all year.<br />
Oh
and that terrible Sandy hurricane that wasn't so bad for us personally
but damage New York and other places like Cuba, Haiti and in Jamaica as
well<br />
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BUT....</h2>
If I really look at the year and put aside what I mentioned before I have to say it was a good year<br />
I
made three trips back to my home land Trinidad... three trips is just
unprecedented for me. (Thank God my sister works with an airline:D ) I
get so much family love when I go home.<br />
2 of my little cousins got married in the 2012 and I was so happy to able to be there and witness their happiness.<br />
Talking
about family my house was full of family ... and friends visiting. My
little nephews stayed with us for 3 weeks wow! My Dad visited for 3
weeks as well. At one point I had 14 persons sleeping under my roof.<br />
My
mother-in-law gifted us with a new kitchen a new stove and kitchen
cabinet refaced. It is so pretty who says things can make you happy. My
kitchen makes me smile every morning :D<br />
After
4 years we finally have a new car... that fits us all and a guest yay!!
Well it is a new to us car but who cares if it is used it makes us
happy. LOL<br />
The hubbie and I are closer than we have been in a long while so the family unit is tight<br />
and
after all the anxiety I am happy to report that my father, his father,
my mother and his mother are alive and well and also so is my
Grandmother who celebrated her 94th birthday in 2012.<br />
And
all my kiddies are happy and healthy growing so fast and joy of joys I
started back painting. wish me luck in keeping it up in 2013<br />
I
guess if you stop focusing on the negative long enough you would be
able to see that the positives no matter how small will always outweigh
the negatives. <br />
So I have to say Thank you and good bye 2012 and with God by my side ( okay carrying me along) <br />
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<span style="color: #999999;">I embrace 2013 and look forward to whatever may come.</span></h4>
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<span style="color: purple;"><span style="background-color: white;"><b>Happy New Year to you all!</b></span></span></h2>
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don't make New Year's resolutions but I do have certain goals and
challenges that I have set for this year. No pressure though. I do hope
to be writing/blogging more this year so I do plan to visit here more in 2013. I am challenging myself to paint
something everyday... missed today though but not fretting tomorrow I'll
just do 2 small ones LOL.<br />
<em>hope all is well with you all :D</em><br />
<i>What goals have you set? </i><br />
<i>Do you have a plan laid out for the year? is it one that you share with your significant other?</i><br />
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<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-62548104786776356352012-10-09T11:30:00.000-07:002012-10-09T11:30:25.958-07:00A jug of juice<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There is a certain amount of cheekiness that I guess all young people have when taking advice from older people.<br />
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For all of my pre-teen into teen years my Grandmother would give me little tips on being a wife. Most of them had to do with cleaning and though I still don't like to clean when I do I sure now how to do it right.<br />
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She kept insisting that I learn how to make juice.<br />
Juice, in Trinidadian talk-where I am from, is usually a concentrate from a can mixed with water and sugar... lots of sugar. I could never get the mix right even if I was using something like Kool-Aid which you really shouldn't get it wrong because the instruction is clearly stated on the back.<br />
So my response to her was always :<br />
'Grannie I am not worried about juice if the man wants juice he will make his own.'<br />
To which she would reply ' Hmmph no man will marry you if you can't make juice!' and she would poke me goodnaturedly and we would let it die until the next time.<br />
She has been dead now for well over 18 years and I still can't make juice.<br />
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I was reminded of our conversations a few weeks ago when I watched my husband very happily putting together his own concoction for me to taste, coincidentally on the anniversary of her burial, and it hit me that she wasn't talking about juice at all.<br />
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<span style="background-color: purple;"><span style="color: purple;"><span style="background-color: white;">She wanted me to know that it is the little things like juice that help to make your spouse feel special and contribute to your marriage working smoothly.</span></span></span></h2>
<span style="background-color: purple;"><span style="color: purple;"><span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: black;">Don't you agree?</span> </span></span><span style="background-color: white;"></span></span><br />
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Links that caught my attention:<br />
<a href="http://unveiledwife.com/revive-your-friendship-in-marriage/">http://unveiledwife.com/revive-your-friendship-in-marriage/</a><br />
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<a href="http://havoc-to-heaven.com/19-ways-to-stay-married-for-19-years/">http://havoc-to-heaven.com/19-ways-to-stay-married-for-19-years/</a><br />
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I have been attempting to finish this little post for about 2 week maybe 3 weeks now! I don't know what was causing the lack of focus.... hopefully it's gone now. Hope you all have been good.<br />
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<br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-9232158429589743812012-09-11T14:24:00.002-07:002012-09-11T14:24:40.528-07:00A lil wedding advice<i>Well who knew that I would be so delinquent in posting on this space. </i><br />
<i>It's not like I didn't have the ideas, I had those, for some reason I just could find the time. But it was summer and with all children home and my nephews added to the fray it I just couldn't find the time to say hello or did I have the mental capacity to think after dealing with 6 children for the summer, needless to say I am singing the praises of having a big yard and plenty bikes to go around. </i><br />
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My little cousin got married last week and it was a joy to be able to attend the wedding. </h4>
I love weddings,<br />
the promise that they hold,<br />
the love beaming out of the bride and groom and their family friends<br />
and the all out positivity that the day usually prevails.<br />
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The fact that everyone is dressed all pretty is also a plus.<br />
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This wedding was no different... except it was clear from the beginning that they were going to have fun at their wedding and it was going to be about dancing because they held hands and danced down the aisle to the song of Bob Marley's We're Jammin.<br />
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My uncle's speech has been echoing through my mind since the wedding. The love for his daughter was apparent as he recalled all their many firsts, tears came to my eyes.<br />
His advice to them, drawing from his 39 years of marriage to my aunt- yup 39! :-<br />
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Pray together,</h4>
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place God first in your marriage and</h4>
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never go to sleep, never go to bed angry with each other.</h4>
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Good advice.</h4>
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We have problems with the not going to bed angry part. Many nights taking the time to calm down and 'sleeping' on it has actually worked for us.<br />
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My advice to the newly married couple adding to what my uncle said would be:<br />
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Communication is key... take time and talk to each other and listen to what each other are saying.</h4>
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Be committed to your marriage - choose to stay married.</h4>
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& Hold hands often.</h4>
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<i>Hoping to be around more often now that school is back in session.</i>Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-39317168280936197462012-08-08T16:22:00.002-07:002012-08-08T16:22:56.797-07:00<h2 class="uiStreamMessage" data-ft="{"type":1,"tn":"K"}" style="color: purple;">
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marrying, ask yourself this question: </span></h2>
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<span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}">Do you believe that you will be
able to converse well with this person into your old age? Everything
else in marriage is transitory."</span></h2>
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<span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><br /> <span style="color: black;">Friedrich Nietzsche</span></span></h2>
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<span class="messageBody" data-ft="{"type":3}"><i><span style="color: black;">(borrowed this from Facebook )</span></i></span></div>Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3749577790893947276.post-75107985577196091442012-06-22T20:10:00.002-07:002012-06-22T20:10:59.886-07:00What is your favourite colour?<div style="text-align: center;">
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I found this wonderful post at <a href="http://zachterry.wordpress.com/">http://zachterry.wordpress.com</a>. It is an old post but it is new to me.<br />
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<b>50 question to Ask your Spouse on Date night.</b></h3>
Isn't it fitting seeing that Fridays are traditionally date night.<br />
The questions asked are exactly the questions that you and your significant others should be having and logging somewhere and I think that even if you think you know all the answers that they should be revisited a few times because sometimes the answers change.<br />
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The first five are fun and easy and I will share here. Also liked #9 & 22:<br />
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<i>1. What are your 5 favorite foods, with the most favorite first?<br /><br />2. What are your 5 favorite kinds of meals, with the most favorite first?<br /><br />3. What are your 5 favorite desserts, with the most favorite first?<br /><br />4. What are your 5 favorite restaurants, with the most favorite first?<br /><br />5. What is your favorite color?<br /><br />9. What gifts do you like?<br /><br />22. How much sleep do you need?</i><br /><br />see the rest of the questions <a href="http://zachterry.wordpress.com/2009/10/07/50-questions-to-ask-your-spouse-on-a-date-night/" target="_blank">here</a>.<br /><br />Now don't laugh but I am not even sure I have the answers to these myself but I do have an idea of the hubbie's answers.<br /><br />Strange enough the hubbie and I discussed #5 What is your favourite colour? just yesterday. Of course he is not even sure what his colour is. I say it is blue and on occasion he likes green and orange. He kinda agrees with the blue LOL.<br />
My favourite colour is orange. It used to be purple but it has changed. I still like purple but it has gone down in importance replaced sometimes with bright pink. I am actually a great fan of the colours of the sunset.<br />
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Try it ask the questions and connect with your significant others... it should be fun!<br />
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Have a great weekend<br /><br />Wahzat Gaylehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01103871875736349729noreply@blogger.com2