la deuxième partie meaning part 2
(for those of us that are not remotely bilingual)
Anyway the best way to combat the grumpys and possibly eliminate it all together is by taking control of the situation.
My two favourite solutions come from two unlikely sources.
The first comes from Joyce Meyer
Charismatic Christian author and speaker:
Before you actually get out of the bed you should roll into a hug with your significant other. Release your self into the hug and presto you both are off to a good start.
Joyce and her hubby starts off their day this way.
I made a point of doing this for 1 week straight and I have to say it really did make a difference to the grumpy level in the morning.
You should definitely try it.
The second comes from one of the contributors to
'Chicken Soup for the Christian Soul2' .
This trick is to put out a positive outlook to the day by saying these two simple phrases:
'I love you... today is going to be a Great Day!'
The writer said it every Sunday to her entire family to help motivate her family to get ready and reach to church without any fuss or grumpyness or dragging of feet.
I decided to try it with my hubbie and my family and I have to say that there is something to saying positive words aloud.
It is almost like putting up a positivity shield around everyone.
Everytime I say these words to the hubbie he smiles.
And you know that is all that is what it is for!
So remember give a hug then say I love... today is going to be a Great Day!
Have a great weekend!
I LOVE it!
ReplyDeleteWhat great ideas! I do well on these fronts with my kids. But need to work on the significant other, we are always on diff. schedules. Thanks!
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